Well she overheard me talking poorly about her to my mother last night. I was telling her I thought she was narcissistic and evil for continuing to talk to the OM. This comes across as weak. Step backwards due to this incident.
I don't think that's such a bad thing actually. Now she knows you're not putting her on a pedestal anymore. Do try to avoid venting when she's around like ovr said though.
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I have told her this morning to only contact me about the kids and nothing else. Not how is my day going or what am I doing, or where am I at.
Good. Now if she ignores you and does it anyway, then don't reply.
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She mentioned in text this morning that we need to go to counseling with no strings attached. I told her I would not be going to counseling while she is involved with someone else.
Also good.
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I'm really thinking that I may have to file for divorce eventually to get back my power, dignity, and self worth. This is a personal decision that I feel I may have to make when that time comes.
It's really the other way around. When you get back your power, dignity and self worth, THEN you may find yourself ready to file.
