No contact on your part is to help you heal. If she's not been contact w/you, She will contact you when she either needs something or her curiosity gets the better of her. Don't worry too much about the no contact on her part. They all do it at first. They are too busy w/the euphoria of being free and doing all of those "exciting" things that they think that they missed out on as kids and teenagers.
Make a list of those things that you've not found time to start and/or complete and begin doing them one by one. It's a time to do those things that you love to do or even start some new activities. It's a time to focus on you and think back to the person you were prior to marriage. If you liked the person that you were before marriage, maybe it's time to think about making some changes.
Bottom line, leave her to her journey and focus on your journey. Time is on your side. The new year is around the corner and it's time to focus on creating some new memories along the way. Dig deeper for patience and keep that focus on you!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
