I’ve also picked up the guitar again. Reconnected with an old band mate and we are going to start jamming again! He is in a successful band so I’m going to attend his show this Saturday night.
I think I’m going to start attending a church with a new work friend. Not sure yet.
Awesome! Great GAL activities!
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Ps my company is throwing a high end Christmas party. I asked W if she would like to attend.
Is it my imagination or weren't you just parading around your newfound "100% detachment"? Rather than comment myself, let me just ask you, does this sound like something a person who is 100% detached would do?
That made me laugh out loud, I don't think I've ever heard anyone accuse the vets here of sugar-coating things
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If W said she wanted to work on things and recon. I would feel very skeptical. I’m unsure if I would want to. This makes me feel bad about myself. Is this normal?
Would a 100% detached person be bothered by that? No. What would a 100% detached person do? They wouldn't even ask themselves this question in the first place, because it's not on their radar. They would be 100% focused on their own life and leaving their WAS alone to do whatever they are going to do. Then down the road if their WAS approached them about recon, they would deal with it then. I get asked this question every once in a while (whether I would consider recon) and I always have to stop and think because I honestly give it zero thought in my daily life. Usually when I'm asked I respond with something like "I don't really think about it because I don't see it happening, but if it did I don't think I'd be interested, but who knows what the future holds."
