So much gets blown up, our life, the kids’ lives, our spouses’ life, work, home, family, friends, etc...
That moment is aptly named, as Bomb Drop.
Those ripples of devastation do spread out, engulfing a lot.
And underneath that wave of destruction is a undercurrent of hope and renewal. LBS, kids, family, friends, work, etc... all can become rebuilt, stronger, and so much better for having survived and healing from this.
The destruction, the bomb, is quick. The rebuilding is a slow process. The time is well invested, building bonds and self worth that are much stronger than the forces that toppled it all before.
I am happy you can, and are, reflecting upon that moment without cynicism and vengeance. I believe you are using your gift of time very well.
Enjoy the sparkling lights with your son.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.