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ozman #2874269 12/02/19 09:56 PM
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Originally Posted by ozman
No I don’t. frown
It is a learned skill. How do you practice swimming without getting in the water? Especially when your own swimming pool currently has no water.


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ozman #2874278 12/02/19 10:44 PM
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Hmm. Well how do I start


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Originally Posted by ozman
Hmm. Well how do I start
Do your research. Practice. Hold your boundaries.


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ozman #2874312 12/03/19 01:11 AM
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Goin bowling this weekend with some new friends I’ve made. Exploring a new part of the city


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ozman #2874318 12/03/19 03:23 AM
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Originally Posted by ozman
Goin bowling this weekend with some new friends I’ve made. Exploring a new part of the city
Perfect.
Learn to swim.Look at my book list for:
learn ways to attract


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ozman #2874673 12/05/19 01:43 AM
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Thanks! Would you mind shooting that list my way again r2c. Thanks!

I’ve also picked up the guitar again. Reconnected with an old band mate and we are going to start jamming again! He is in a successful band so I’m going to attend his show this Saturday night.

I think I’m going to start attending a church with a new work friend. Not sure yet.

Ps my company is throwing a high end Christmas party. I asked W if she would like to attend. She said she would like that and and said she wanted to go. I wasnt sure if I wanted her to come or not. But I decided for it in the end.

In my spare time I’m browsing for places to live when our lease is up. I have my first IC appt scheduled for next week and I have began going to the gym. I feel like I’m in a pretty good place

Honest question here. Please don’t sugar coat anything here.

If W said she wanted to work on things and recon. I would feel very skeptical. I’m unsure if I would want to. This makes me feel bad about myself. Is this normal?


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ozman #2874685 12/05/19 02:02 AM
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Originally Posted by ozman
Thanks! Would you mind shooting that list my way again r2c. Thanks!


Go to my quotes thread. There is a link there.


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Originally Posted by ozman
If W said she wanted to work on things and recon. I would feel very skeptical. I’m unsure if I would want to. This makes me feel bad about myself. Is this normal?
Yes.

Try not doing the what if's. Deal with reality.


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I don’t m ow if I have the popular opinion here, but why the heck would you invite her to your company Christmas party? She insults you, she’s me a, and she even insulted your opportunity at this new job. She’s someone you want to bring in front of these people at your new job where you feel great? She wants a divorce and you invite her as your date?

Why? What was your point in that? You are rewarding bad behavior.

Please, if she steps out of line and goes into her usual biotch mode while she is there, please don’t tolerate it.

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Originally Posted by Ginger1
why the heck would you invite her to your company Christmas party?


The real question is why in the heck didn't you come here for some opinions, BEFORE you asked her?


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