Jealous of his new life with OW

[DonH]

I really really believe you need some serious professional help. I urge you to seek it.

You are getting some great advice here but above all else I think this from ginger is most important. There are some very wise people here but we are not trained professionals with 1,000s of patients under our belts. I just happened to see your thread and read it. I know you are hurting but there is so much here I’m not sure where to even start. Making H or anyone the center of your universe, your children’s needs and how you seem to resent D14 in part because she is living with your H. Dating or doing cybersex with men online, past trauma... it’s all way too much for people on the Internet, even great folks like are here, to provide meaningful help. You say you want to “table” professional help because you can’t afford it. KAS you cannot afford NOT to get this help. Insurance should cover it. If I’ve seen anyone here that needs help right now it is you. Please don’t put it off. You can’t go in like you are.