I agree as well- she has done no work on herself and this would ruin your new R--exactly what she wants She may be with other men as well as sje does not believe in Monogomy She is a very unsafe bet at this point
I would also suggest NO ride No visit Boundries and less phone calls
She cant pull you in if you dont let her and if you do it once....there will be probably more and it will be impossible to move into a better, more stable Relationship
she clearly is not well-
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