I know this is not my thread but just wanted to add what is working for me (separated for scarcely over a month and detaching + GAL):
- go to opera, trips and museums on my own - fresh work start in new position happening early 2020 hopefully - weight lifting and running - eating healthy - planning activities with my children - learning to play piano - going out with friends, say no to nothing - read DB/DR and other great books - new cologne, taking care of clothes and beard
Here is a link to my thread in case someone could help me better understand my WAW
------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Me 29 W:29 M: 5yrs T:10yrs S:6 yrs S:1 yr BD: "I want a D" 08/09/19 Sep: 10/27/19