Yes - absolutely I got that too. I got texts with: "I'm sorry for being mad." "I'm sorry if I say anything out of anger - I don't mean it." - my male brain processes that with 'why say it then?!' "Sorry if that sounded harsh."
I then had a discussion with her about moving my computer etc into her work room so we could spend time together when working rather than in separate rooms, then she was talking to me about wallpapering our bedroom and painting another room and getting a fitted wardrobe etc. This was before the sudden 3-weeks of absolutely unplanned NC from her.
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I will just check over things and tell her to send it on. I've done my bit so she can do the emailing surely.
Since IC and reading up on everything and being on this excellent board, I'm stopping to think how I'd react in situations and what would be the best way to approach problems. I think in time that'll become natural.
Me - 36, W - 32 No kids T - 8 yr, M - 3 yr Discovery - 14 May 2019 S - 25 May 2019 & D bomb - 29 July 2019 D & House sale final - Feb 2020