Mate I’d just give her the lawyers email and tell her to send it there. You’re 2 separate parties in a legal proceeding so that’s the appropriate way to do things- separately.
Hear you on the figuring it out yourself as to changes confusion. Not sure if you ever got it, but very often after her fit of fury over changes or plain anger I’d get a sorry I’m such a bitch or I don’t know what came over me, and one time I remember after a big argument she started sending me texts with holiday suggestions! That type of thing was her way of breaking the tension and I let it ride because I was relieved we were back to normal. Well if that ever happens again I’m not going to gloss over it but rather talk about it and discover what’s the underlying base issue and confront it in a mature and thorough fashion.
We’re not naive nice guys any more are we Dan.
Cheers DS
Me: early 40's XW: nearly 50 T: 15 M: 5 BD: Jan 19 S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24
