So we have had a bit of texting banter back and forth. We are catching up on what has happened the past 9 months or so. I offered her a ride in my new car at some point, as it is something I have wanted for 10 + years (it is an exotic car). She commented about how many women I must have had in it and "oh, if the seats could talk". She is also very curious if my relationship is serious or not. I skirted the question at first but felt compelled to eventually answer. After I answered she want on and asked if she fulfills me and treats me well. I said yes. STBXW is in a committed relationship but stated she likely will never get married again, and feels monogamous relationships are not part of the human spirit. With all this, I asked why a face to face meeting is so important and felt better about a phone call or email. She already arranged a babysitter and is adamant about coming over. I eventually told her I have moved on and had no interest in a romantic relationship with her and she replied "that hurts."
Later that night, she told me she was lying in bed next to OM. I am at the point where I do not care, but asked how he would feel if he knew she was texting me. She replied he was not aware and has not asked, because she answers to nobody. I frankly asked her if she planned on having her way with me and she has yet to answer. I finally texted her back that we should just talk on the phone and she has yet to respond.
I cannot understand this mind frame. I do want a cordial relationship with her, because it is best for the kids. My friends and I feel she is going to attempt to seduce me to keep me close. I would have been thrilled about this a year ago but not at this point. How do I best handle this?
