Originally Posted by scout12
Deep down, I do continue to cut him some slack and give him the benefit of the doubt that he is struggling with something. It's hard to tell if my feelings are sitting in reserve or simply gone... for now.


This quality is very admirable Scout, particularly given what he's put you through.

Originally Posted by scout12


My mortgage refinance was conditionally approved yesterday.



Fantastic! Hopefully H approves the orders now.


Originally Posted by scout12


With regards to my concerns about H's time with S1, I have decided to do nothing. I'll let the legal documents do their job and let go of my fear that S1 is being negatively affected.



Good call Scout.


Originally Posted by scout12

Well, the time has come to invest in tree 2.0.


Nice one. I just goit a new pre lit one as well. Went crzy in T k max buying decorations - fantastic range that you should check out. Got realy nice outdoor led lights from Aldi too.

Have fun decorating with your son!


Originally Posted by kml
played for several years in a pop punk band,


You're one cool chick kml. I sang in a rock/punk band in my late teens/early 20's!


Me: early 40's
XW: nearly 50
T: 15
M: 5
BD: Jan 19
S:10 SS: 22 SD: 24