W emailed me to let me know she has found an apartment and is moving out of the one I got for her this month. She asked if I could wire her enough to pay two months rent deposit and from then on a specific amount each month which would help pay the rent at the new apartment. This tells me she is making a very unwise decision. This divorce money was meant to buy her new furniture or at least pay off some of her debts, but now she is using most of it just to live nice for a relatively short period of time(itīs a one year contract).
She wrote that she just needs to figure out how to move all her things since she canīt afford a car or hire someone to do it. I bet she was hoping Iīd offer to help. What I felt like writing back was "by the looks of it you have a "friend" who can help". I wrote -
"If you need more of your money to move the things let me know."
She sent two emails and explained more than she needed to, about how hard it was to find a place and that she was panicking for a while etc. I didnīt respond to any of that.
Me: 38 Stbxw: 35 No kids Mini bd: February 6, 2019 ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019 Told her to move out: September 8, 2019 W moved out: September 28, 2019 Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019
