@AnotherStrander That is horrible to hear what happened to your brother. I just cannot imagine doing to someone what happened to him, I and others on this board.
All, I've browsed the forums for a few weeks and havent seen anything quite like my situation. What have others done in a similar scenario? On one end Im 99% sure I'm a sucker and am supporting W while she has an affair, on the other end, I have my house, home cooked food, saving financial hardship and the best possible baby sitter for my kids. My D resolves her playstyle and actions around family. Just about every game she plays involves there being a mom, dad and kids. Just heartbreaking. I went down the rabbit hole of effects of affairs and divorce on kids, wish i didn't do that.
It takes a lot of time to read these sitches and see what really went down, but you're story is quite similar to the others.
For example: A depressed LBS, LBS gets meds/counseling, WW/WAS on the fence doesn't know what he/she wants, cake eating, affairs, you confront and she appeases and hides... sounds pretty similar.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.
