What is your timeline for changing the current status quo? Do you have dates scheduled for mediation? What is your plan if W does not agree to a reasonable agreement and mediation breaks down?
I've been pushing for mediation but no, nothing is scheduled. We are supposed to talk tomorrow evening about this.
My plan if my W does not agree or mediation breaks down is really the only option I have, which is to file and let that process take its course. I consulted a L several months ago who I would retain in this scenario.
I imagine the advice here would be to set a boundary? (Advice needed here):
"I would like us to select a mediator and start mediation by date XYZ. Otherwise I intend to file for D."
