Meredith, I have set boundaries for my h just recently. He is taking advantage of me while I am in pain. My boundaries are pretty ruff, but 180 for me because I have always been a push over. I never wanted to rock the boat. Well the boat is rockin' and the currents get ruff, but I ain't the 1 nauseous this time. It is H.
I told him when he spends time w/S do it @ his moms where he reside, no washing clothes here, I don't want u here when I am not home( he was going thru my things),and I don't want you coming around @ dinner and breakfast time wanting to eat. He was only picking S up to go to his B-Ball games but I told him you will get him every other weekend. He thinks I have nothing better to do than entertain S on the weekends??????????? WTF
I set the boundaries about 2 wks ago. I have not called him unless it is about S or finances. He is finding every stupid reason in the world to call me. He called me @ 1am this morning. I did not even answer. I will continue to DB but I need to be respected as well. You can not respect a doormat!
Sorry the post is so long. come and visit my thread when u get a moment.
