I am making my changes for me and also for my children so they have a better role model on me but of course I do not expect anything on exchange. I am just concerned I am sending the message I do not care about OR but as you very well point out is actions that must make clear I care.
I had a bit of a revelation today, I picked a second copy of DR to take it to Spain and it is used. It has all this emotional notes from the previous owner (she even highlighted the suicide threat comment on the LRT section) and I told myself I am going to be happy and a new man, no matter what happens to my marriage, so I took a bath singing!
I have one last question before tomorrow, I fly on the 6th to Spain for a month and my W knows I will be there but last time I asked to see my children and it was not my turn she acted as if she was forgiving my life and I should be grateful above all. Any ideas how to attempt a family plan without being pursuing her? would that even be a good idea? I dont think so since I have to ask you guys and it is only been 5 weeks since we separated.
Thanks as always for all the great support, you guys are really the opposite to what one expects from an online forum (I mean in a great way!)
Me 29 W:29 M: 5yrs T:10yrs S:6yrs S:1 yr BD: "I want a D" 08/09/19 Sep: 10/27/19
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