I was not hiding anything but wasn't advertising that I was going out on dates. She found out through a friend that I thought I could trust that I was "dating" and she went nuts. She told me for months that it was over..... WAY over and we would never be together again and I should move on. I did and she was not happy about it.
Same thing happened in my situation. It's like firing someone from a job and subsequently getting mad they found a new job.I've been told it's because you are screwing up their plan of having you as a Plan B, but I'd love to hear more on this from sandi as to what's going through the WAS's head.
It's almost like they are just gone but have guilt over ending things, so they want to pin it on you.
It feels like 50 Shades of Done when they start disbelieving you moved on and started dating. Level 1 is the BD. Level 5 is when they announce they want the D. Level 8 is when they serve you papers. When you start dating, they apparently to take to to yet another level!!! I was thing "I thought we were done at Level 8?"
