I TOTALLY agree about the OP name calling. It makes me cringe when I see it. For me, it boils down to the fact that I believe if you can conjure up that much hatred for the OP, then the feelings you are proclaiming for your spouse aren't really accurate. How can you forgive one and not the other? You are lying to yourself when you do that. I'm not suggesting having tea and biscuits with the OP, but the crass names are unnecessary. Mer was right, that site was like Jerry Springer.
I've never been one for the whole "LOL" thing, cause frankly, usually things are just not that funny....and rolling on the floor laughing?...who REALLY does that? So, when people responded to those sad, sick, twisted stories with "LOL," well, I had to just sit and wonder what kind of world I'm living in.
