I read this thread the other day and thought of you:
https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=162709#Post162709

I would love to hear your perspective if you are willing to share. I am sure other readers would benefit.

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712