I'm back after taking some time off and couldn't find my old thread or get into my account.
Welcome back! The mods can assist with that if you remember your old handle, do you?
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I was not hiding anything but wasn't advertising that I was going out on dates. She found out through a friend that I thought I could trust that I was "dating" and she went nuts. She told me for months that it was over..... WAY over and we would never be together again and I should move on. I did and she was not happy about it.
Yup, she wants you sitting at home as Plan B forever, pining away for her. I can't tell you how many times I've seen this happen where the WAS tells the LBS that they just need to move on and find someone that's better for them, then as soon as the LBS sticks a toe in the dating pool the WAS goes ballistic even if the WAS themselves are dating or even in a heavy relationship.
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She can't believe i have moved on or in a emotional place to be with someone else. Even know if she was honest and wanted to go to a couples weekend Like the Gottmans offer and wanted to but in honest effort I still would.
thoughts? input?
Is that a hypothetical question? IE, she didn't actually say she wanted to start MC did she? If not then just keep living your life.