Originally Posted by unchien
- Perhaps she prefers her current situation (living off my income, in an unaffordably nice home, with >70% custody and in control of the situation).


Think about it - if you were in her shoes would you want the current situation to change?

Originally Posted by unchien
Perhaps I shouldn't bother reading into it, and do what's best for me.


Is letting the current situation drag on what's best for you?

Originally Posted by unchien

If I had 50/50-ish time with the kids, and financially I was not supporting her lifestyle


But reality is you are supporting her lifestyle and don't have the time you want with the kids.