Ok guys, I sent her back out of the MB last night. I was calm and nice in asking her to move out. I told her I could not have a relationship with her until she was no longer involved with the OM and she was no longer communicating with him. I also stated I do not agree with living in an open relationship and that is what we have had for the past year.
Try not to turn everything into an R talk. You should have just said "get out" and when she said "why" say "you know why". Because she does.
Also get ready because she will turn defiant and move back into the bed before long. So be prepared to address that.
Quote
She didn't want to leave at first and asked if we could take turns sleeping in the other room. I calmly stated it was her actions that she cheated and continues to lie so it should be her to leave.
A simple "no" would have had more impact on her.
Quote
I have got to mourn the loss of this relationship and move forward.
Yes, and the loss of your W because she is not who you married. Maybe she will be again some day, but for now she's a full-blown GGW wayward.
