Ok guys, I sent her back out of the MB last night. I was calm and nice in asking her to move out. I told her I could not have a relationship with her until she was no longer involved with the OM and she was no longer communicating with him. I also stated I do not agree with living in an open relationship and that is what we have had for the past year.
I know this cycle of going back and forth has got to stop. I've got to mean it this time and respond with action from here on out. She didn't want to leave at first and asked if we could take turns sleeping in the other room. I calmly stated it was her actions that she cheated and continues to lie so it should be her to leave. She calmly walked out after that and went to the other room.
This morning I left the house before she got up and did not speak. This will be hard but I know its best for me to gain back my dignity and self worth. I can not control her and her actions. She has continually kept communications open with this guy. I have got to mourn the loss of this relationship and move forward.
