There is a lot of emotional bait floating around my sitch. Just today I was accused of "playing games" and not displaying kindness (by asking to talk about parenting schedules in mediation).
I am confused, did she agree to D and/or mediation? Or have you made a decision to push forward with it? (It's possible I missed something in your sit) One thing I've noticed - I find it interesting she is dragging her feet on mediation.
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My W told me the only reason she moved here was to hopefully fix my unhappiness (rewriting history).
Yeah - my W rewrote history too when I was still trying to understand what was going on (before I found DB). When I finally understood those were her feelings at that moment, I was better able to validate. When I started validating, nothing changed for three months or so, but then I noticed W started calming down a little.
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It's soooo hard to avoid the temptation to defend, to explain, to spell out my point of view.
Thats great - you've found something for you to work on!
