I agree about the clothes thing. So many many ways that can go wrong .... That's 26 years of marriage experience there I still remember my son at about 6 wanting to buy his mother a pair of size small PJs (She's 4' 11") and the smiles from the other shoppers when I gently suggested that she would be very flattered but perhaps we should look at the large.
IMO - similar to what Ginger1 has said - the best gift of all is time. Cadet keeps going on about it here after all
A nice weekend / mid-week getaway for just the two of you. Having flowers sent to the room seems to be popular as well along with a bit funny because both with B and S they were initially completely clueless that they were because of me and weren't just a courtesy of the hotel.
Some way to give her your time and attention. A way to give her time for herself. Time for just the two of you.
Time is a funny thing. Everyone says that they are short of it but there is an inexhaustible quantity constantly being made.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells