No arguments yet. I do know she want's a pre-nup and won't be changing her last name. Not deal breakers for me.
There have been no other details discussed. I have assumed though that all financial accounts will be separate. Which is not a deal breaker for me either. I don't want or need her money as I don't want her to hold it over my head either as she did with her XH. While I make good money and I am certainly not a DR. so if she is going to hang it over my head and make little comments about her buying this and that then she needs to think about what is of equal value that I bring to the table.
Our parenting styles are very different. Her house is paid off and big enough for all of us however I also want it to feel like my home and my daughters as well.