Yum, yeah technically January 16th was our first date. She makes comments like...."When you are 80 baby I wont' let you pull your pants up to your nipples". Comments like that happen fairly frequently. She has also told me directly that I am the one and she would never do anything of her doing to ruin our R. So really it's just a matter of time.

The kids are the one thing that is holding us back. We have been very lucky that for the most part our weekends have been aligned until now however we really have not spent a ton of time around each other's kids. That is the next step.

When I have my girls I do not see her at all during the week. When I don't have them I will go over to her place after her son goes to bed on Sunday nights and Tuesday nights then we spend the entire weekend together outside of breaks for my girls sporting events, errands we have to run, etc.

I thought about some earrings as she always wears her favorite pair. She also makes her own jewelrey as well so she is kind of picky.


Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018