Out of the blue my W text me and says: 11 years ago I called you to tell you Addie was on the way. Honestly I'm so sorry I wasn't a better wife and made you look else where. I never meant for our lives to get this complicated.

What do I respond? I want to tell her that it was my fault, that it was my problems that lead to this. That she was always enough and still is. That I'm sorry I wasn't a better husband and that she felt like she couldn't stay.

I'm sure that is all wrong. Please give me some advice.


Me 34 Her 34
T:16 years
M:11
4 Daughters: 10,7,6,3
Her EA May 2019
Separated July 30th 2019
Her PA Started August 1st, 2019
Filed October 3rd, 2019