^^^^ who’s giddy about that? You said “we’re giddy” Are you including the kids in this giddiness? Because it’s kind of awful for your kids to see and that’s sad.
And which is it? The perfect magical life, or this? You are just making up so many different narratives .
And how is it your son hates your daughter and you understand why?! What’s going on there?
Try very hard to step back from his life and get much more involved in yours. What do you want for you as an individual? What can YOU do to make that happen? Not what has your H taken away from you that won’t allow it, but what is in your control to give you the life you want?
I don’t see obsessing over him as helping you cope.
