Living, I just finished reading your thread and WOW. I'm so sorry to hear about the turn of events. I am curious - what is holding you back from filing for D?
Woosa, I don’t want a divorce. However, I won’t stand in his way if he chooses to file for one.
That said, I am tired of the emotional roller coaster we’ve been on.
My mind may change this coming year. But I just feel like he’s the one who wants it, let him be the one to file it.
I’ve been on a roller coaster ride for 2 years with my H, who I believe with everything in me is having a MLC. All the advise and help says to GAL, take care of yourself, and leave the MLC’er to their mess. The advise also says that if the MLC’er wants a divorce let them do the work to get that. So I’ve been trying all that.
Truth is, I’ve held on hoping that he would change back into the man I married or heck even a better version of him. And based on my husbands behavior, he hasn’t.
That’s the best answer I can give you.
Last edited by Living; 12/01/1902:20 PM.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
