In the next 24-36 hours we are expecting up to a foot of snow and a quarter inch of frozen rain. No problem. I live in New England.
Here is my confilict. I am in AA and I'm also a LBS.
W goes into work for 11 PM and works overnight.
Before mlc I would either plull W's car into garage and/ or make sure it was clean of snow and ice and make sure it was warmed up for her before she left.
Several months ago she told me that she doesn't want my help in any possible way. She said she can do all of her own stuff.
As an active member of AA I need to keep my side of the street clean and do good things for other people without worrying about myself.
My AA sponsor is a great guy but does not understand AA. His suggestion is to either do what I have always done and take care of her car or ask her if she wants me too. That is great advice if there was no mlc.
So should I take car of the car or let her get a glimpse of life without me. I'm pretty sure she won't realize how long it takes to chip ice off of a car windshield.
