I’m am so sorry to hear your update. It is horrible that he got your hopes up only to do that to you. I know you are sting and will push through it. Take care of yourself!
Thank you LH19, I truly appreciate it. Truthfully I don’t blame him for my high hopes. That’s my fault. I should have allowed his actions to prove to me he was ready.
Truth is, he’s not the man that I married, and he probably never will be. He has the freedom to be whoever he pleases. We all change and grow throughout life. Some for the better, some for the worse.
Truth is, he’s self-centered, selfish, childish, vindictive, a liar, and he’s immature. That is who he chooses to be and he’s well within his right to be all of the above. And I’m well within my right to choose that I deserve better for myself.
It’s sad that this is who he has become because it’s the total opposite of who he was for 11 years of our relationship. However, it is what it is. There’s nothing I can do to change him. He seems ok with who he is so...
So I’m continuing to focus on me. I’m not mean or rude to him but I’m very distant. If he wants a divorce, he can take care of that. I won’t stand in his way!
Last edited by Living; 12/01/1901:59 PM.
Original BD: 10/26/2017 PA: 10/2017 - 11/2017 Second BD: 09/15/2018 Currently: IHS M: 42 H: 45 S: 22 lives on his own D: 18 away at college S: 15 still lives at home - the only child we share together
