Down, but not out ..... yet.

[Ginger1]

LH- how can a woman you’ve been on 2 dates and don’t know be the one to slam the door on your ex wife you still desire reconciliation with? There is no woman that powerful. If they make you feel that way in one or two dates, then you were done with your ex and you didn’t even know it. Because these women are perfect strangers at that point.

Or...... maybe someone can pique your interest to get further to know to the point you might want to slam the door on reconciliation. However, usually at that point, if you decide that she still doesn’t do that for you, that woman is probably invested. And take it from me....... it really stinks to be the woman who went in desiring no reconciliation with their ex.

Guys stick around me for a little longer because I am indeed an excellent girlfriend. DB has strengthened my tools to be a great partner. And I am. Men go farther than they should because I am A woman only a fool would leave. It’s a curse, lol

The men I date are about 2 years out. Pretend to be in a good ready place, but totally are not. Unfortunately for me, at my age, most are newly divorced. Not for as long as I have been. They are bitter about custody, alimony, etc.

I am indeed to open to all options. I just know which ones are most likely to yield results. And in my wildest dreams, I meet a guy at least 5 years out, over there ex’s , not bitter and is ready to treat me like a queen. As I treat my men like Kings. I can’t find myself settling for any less again. M was definitely a lesson in that.