I don't see why it is a bad thing to keep all options open. In the grand scheme of things does it really matter how you meet Mr. Right?
I think it's a safe thing to assume that if a guy is divorced for less then two years and it wasn't his idea to get divorced then that door most likely could be open. You see I am looking at dating another way in which I am hoping to meet the woman who will slam that door shut forever. That's what happened when J met the Doc. If I don't get that feeling on one or two dates I let it go not to waste any more of her time. I interview quite a few people for my job and I feel I am a good judge of character and I usually know early on.
Sometimes it's so hard to absorb, apply and understand things we learn on our journey. Everything is happening exactly the way it's supposed to and people come and go in our lives to teach us lessons. M taught you that your needs are important. I don't think you realize it yet but you're getting stronger and it shows.
