22 Years Gone Part 2

[rooskers]

Do you think a call or email to them just laying it out about how you feel with their total lack of support or interest would wake them up?

I tried that and she blamed me for everything. I told her it hurt that she hasn't come to my house to see D13 or myself and she said "that is a lie, you told me not to come over." There is no way I would have said that. I confronted her about the nasty texts and she denied those as well until I said I had them right in front of me on my phone. She either denied everything or turned it around and said it was my fault. I asked her why I had to always call her and she never called me and she said that was not true even though I also have phone records proving that. My mom is exactly like my XW.

On a positive note I took D13 today into the mountains and we cut down a beautiful Christmas tree. When we got home we decided it would be a great idea to make our own ornaments. We have been having so much fun decorating and listening to music. This is a good thing because she has been having a really hard time lately. She keeps asking "why did mom leave, we were such a happy family." It plays in her mind over and over when her mom told her "I want your dad to raise you and I will see you sometimes." I have no answers for her