Agree with the above. Get a copy of Divorce Busting, read it, don't let him know you are reading. Focus on yourself, get with friends/family, give him space, but most importantly figure out what it is YOU need to stay in the relationship. Don't jump to conclusions but you need to be prepared to give him an ultimatum and then hold to it.
Keep posting, and share details when you can.
M(35), W(35), D(4) M-9, T-12 Bomb Drop (D announcement) - May 3, 2019 W moved out Aug 13 House sold Sept 25 Papers signed Nov 15 Divorce finalized Dec 12
