I don’t have any great advice or words of wisdom but there are plenty of other people here who give far better advice than I ever could anyway, so I’ll just let them handle it.
Don’t sell yourself short Dawn. You provided and often provide great advice and are a good balance to someone like my more harsh tough love advice. Blending all of our comments and suggestions together nets a pretty awesome sum total.
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