Slow and Steady

[Jac12]

Patience is not waiting for things to happen, it's giving the time to allow things to play out.

My W has been way more friendly...she just accepted a new job and she was asking me to read her responses to make sure it all sounded good in the negotiations (just like old times). She's been more receptive to time spent with me and our son. She doesn't seem as eager to take him out of the house when she's with him and she's even invited me to spend some time with them.

That said...still nothing outside of hugs for now but I feel we are connecting better emotionally than we have for a long time. Will this feed the physical connection to come back??

I'm definitely trying to understand her but unfortunately R2C she's well aware of the cards I'm holding.

I feel like I'm holding on to her saying " I feel like my emotions are changing" (for the better, so we held off on legal stuff) and I want more clarity on what that means.

I guess in time I'll get that....more patience and focus on myself and my son while this plays out. I am dressing better when I'm around her, staying positive, fun, upbeat - engaging with strangers when we are out and generally being friendly.