Hey G. First of all, Happy Thanksgiving...sorry it was so lonely for you.
So, let me just get to the point. You know when you were a kid and you'd see this big puddle. And the only way over it was to back up and get a running start....
You've got a great, big ole puddle in front of you. It is made up of stresses over money and work and the house and dog and little G. And you are trying to get over it by just jumping...and that will only make you really wet.
The way over it is to back way up..and figure out stuff. You are on your way...I can see it..you just need to do a little more thinking thru your stuff.
The way you have been doing things hasnt been working for you, right? Your life isnt what you want it to be. I so get that because mine isnt either. I keep trying to get thru stuff and then more cr@p happens and I lose traction.
I know you know you are blessed in many ways...a wonderful, happy daughter, a great career, owning your own home good friends, etc.
There are some things you feel are lacking. I get that. A nice guy would certainly add to your life...though he wouldnt complete it. There are many unmarried, unattached women who are extremely happy with their lives.
But I get it, you want someone to share your life with. If you do, you have to do something different. OLD is one way..there are others.
Going places where men are likely to be..be it meetups, home depot, food stores, a sport, etc are others. I know you dont have a lot of time, but, you need to be creative and carve out some time for that.
The other thing is that you have to start to see yourself differently. What you put out there, you get back, right? The law of attraction and all that.
A confident, strong woman is a turn on..people can sense it and seek that out....no matter where you are.
As hard as it is, try to put your past luck with men behind you. Make 2020 your year to shine. Walk with confidence and show the world who you really are and what you have accomplished through your attitude.
I can tell you when you do, things will change. You have to believe what we see in you all the way through to your bones.
Life can change in an instant. How you feel and what your life looks like now will not be how it always is. You will not always feel as you do now.
