Fair - I am not super worried about it. If there was, there was. It doesn't change my willingness to work on stuff.
I had met him at a social group that I'd been going to for years, and he is an active member of that group now, too (we both have been for years). I found out today that the Christmas party is the day before our next counseling session. I am sure he will be there. We have attended this group since separating and it is normal/fine - we talk, and honestly, usually at this group we socialized separately anyhow so most people have no idea what's going on (my attendance has dwindled in the past year or 2). I am sure he will be at this party. I know I can go and be normal, and it gives me extra incentive to look nice. One of my GAL things has been taking better physical care of myself, whether he is around or not. This is still 2 weeks away, so I am interested in seeing how that goes/how he acts. This group is kind of lecherous, and I know I will be hit on. Not sure yet how to navigate this.
