Thanksgiving went just fine. Had good time with kids and my family. Not sure where W spent her day, though it appears she chose her new group of “friends” over her side of the family. We just told people (including kids) that she was going to her sister’s house (a couple of states away) as she rarely sees her family on big holidays.

Could use some advice on what to do moving forward toward Christmas. Include/invite W to annual traditions? Tell her she’s made a decision to no longer be a part of this family and don’t invite her? Just feeling stuck on this. Thoughts and opinions welcomed!