This is not a unilateral decision making process. You need to put your balls back on.
This is a negotiation process. The lawyers do it well and take all your family money at the same time.
This is my template:
Here is what I propose: Mediator 1 Mediator 2 Mediator 3. Pick one. If you don't like any of them, go find a couple you like and I will see if I like them. If I do them we use the one we both agree to use.
This is how you should respond:
W, Since you will not provide the name of the mediator you are recommending, bla bla bla
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712