So she is actively refusing to notify me of whom said mediator is.
Getting pretty silly

Me: could you let me know which mediation service it is and how they will be contacting me.

No response

Whatsapp message 1 hour later.
Her : I'm having problems with these work orders can I drop cardstock over to studio tmrw?

Me: yes that's fine, did you see my message on parenting app?

30mins later

Her : yes I sent reply.

Check app

Her: once I send referral form in they will email you to send you all the information and ask if you want to proceed

Me: still no mention of who? Is this an issue for you to share this information?

Her: via whasapp: I'm working all this back and forth is distracting!

Have to laugh really.
Laugh then get ready for a battle I guess

Bd August 2019 after 16years
S 12
D 6