update:

After putting our son to bed last night my W stayed for about an hour after and had a glass of wine with me - we chatted about different things but there was no R talk.

She just came by to drop something off and decided to stay for 20 minutes and chat. Had some laughs - again no R talk, just keeping it light.

When she left she asked if her and her mom could come by tonight to see our son. I said that wouldn't be a problem as we would be here.

Obviously these are positive signs just from a better communication standpoint. How patient should I be as far as talking about our actual Relationship...I've flirted a little bit and she's been receptive to that but there is nothing physical going on besides hugs.


H 37
W 31
S 2

T: 7
M: 4

BD 12/18
Separated 2/19
Living back together 04/06/2019
W Moved out again 07/15/2019