So it all gets worse Receieved following message: Her : if you want to speak to me about the kids please do so via parallel parenting app.
Me: (via requested app) that's fine using app, still concerned we don't have any parenting plan in place. Do you have any thoughts on the questions I asked earlier prior to your proposal for a family meeting with the kids? If we can not agree the fundamentals of a parenting agreement I am happy for us to do so with a mediator or third party?
Her: I did suggest the family meeting but I'm not happy to meet you on my own, I will have a think about everything over the weekend and get back to you Monday.
Me:yes thats fine, to be clear I wasn't suggesting us meeting alone beforehand only if you could message me your thoughts prior to meeting, or did you mean having a 3rd party present at the family meeting?
Her: I have contacted a mediator and they will contact you in due course.
Me: that's good, is your initial goal to agree a parenting plan and or a seperation agreement?
No response
Instead I get an expense request via same app for half the cost of s12's phone that he dropped this week. Yesterday I offered to pay halves and she refused saying she would pay.
So I don't really know what's going on here, I believe the abuse angle is just being ramped up and ramped up, she will be getting advice about how to deal with abusers. I think she will be pushing for zero contact with me as Demonization increases.
Don't really know what to do, obviously there will be no contact between us other than via app and messaging for work. Not sure how this sitch affects DBing if there is no contact maybe forever.
