Hi FS. So glad to read your posts... like Yail, I missed the first one so am happy I saw this. Sounds like you are doing well and continuing to take the high road when you aren’t feeling so good.
Crazy how fast two years goes by, isn’t it? For me it’s only been one year and I am officially divorced as of Saturday which gives XH the green light to get married to his OW and take a giant step towards having a whole new life without having to face any of the things he has done in the past. Ironically...he is back to being financially stressed and OW has a lifelong medical issue that is going to require him to become her caregiver at times. Her neediness puts him in the role of “hero” so from a psychological perspective, I get why he is with her. It is just sad he had to destroy everything we built to feel good about himself.
Anyway... I work hard every day to banish any resentment I experience (not gonna lie...there are flashes) and focus, instead, on the positive co-parenting relationship we have managed to create. Your advice and the example you set in the early days really helped me get there so I need to thank you once again and let you know how happy I am that you posting again. I look forward to hearing about more FS adventures and how Lapland was. I envy you Europeans being so close to so many amazing and unique places in the world.
Gotta get ready for work. Please keep posting. And...btw...I still think there is a future for you and your H as a couple. (((HUGS)))
