Think we should have a family meeting with the kids on Monday, for whatever the kids want
40 min delay then
Me: yes I would be good with that if you can clarify what you would like to discuss with them. I think it's important we balance their wishes with what we agree as adults. And hopefully work towards some solutions and a structured parenting plan. I do have some concerns regarding the goal posts moving based on how we feel day by day and feel it would be better for everybody if we can get some structure in place as soon as possible. If you can touch base with me on what you want to discuss beforehand and let me know a time you want to meet.
This was 2 hours ago, still no response. I feel very much that she is going by whatever the kids want as obviously they are more at home in the family home.