I’m glad you shared about getting your divorce papers. (((DV)))
It is amazing all those years distilled down into a single document. As others have said, it is so anticlimactic.
At this point, divorce is really just a piece of paper. Funny, how I never “got” that until I was there.
I’m sorry and happy for you; I’m pretty sure you understand how those do go together in these circumstances.
Be easy on yourself. After I got my papers, there was some shock, grief processing - a little depression, seeing the new reality, and accepting. It does go by pretty quick all things considered. Still, some emotions will be stirred up, and it’s best to work through them.
You will do splendidly; you’re a strong levelheaded woman. Freedom and your unknown future awaits. Live it full.
DnJ
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
