Apparently there is some drama surrounding Thanksgiving for W and her family. SIL texted me today that she (SIL,not W) will not be attending with them. She has reached out to W over the past weeks and received no response. When confronting her about Thanksgiving, W told her she will not speak to her if she has any communication with me at all. SIL thinks this is insane and is not willing to cut me out of her life or our nephews lives cold turkey. She said we became family and now W chooses to do all of this and we lose you just like that, no way. I feel really bad about it like it’s my fault, but W has said nothing to me about it which I find very strange. I don’t really understand it at all. I guess it is their issue to work out. SIL even said W told her she isn’t mad at her, just won’t communicate while she is in communication with me. I didn’t realize we were at war like that?? Meanwhile when W sees me she tries to hug me... crazy stuff.